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Steven "Doc" List, Agile Novice

VP of Software Development learning to be agile
What's In It For Them?

As I'm reading (and sometimes re-reading) Christopher Avery's wonderful book Teamwork Is An Individual Skill, my thinking gets stimulated. I really like Avery's perspective on things that relate to teamwork, team building, and our personal responsibility.

Here's a great excerpt:

Examine the logic contained in the following five statements:

  1. Everyone alive has hopes, dreams, and wants for themselves.
  2. People who have no hopes, dreams, or wants are dead.
  3. When people get out of bed and go to work, they have linked what they are going to do that day to their hopes, dreams, and wants in a way that makes sense to them. Or they wouldn't get up, would they?
  4. Therefore, all of us have our own excellent reasons for investing in work projects--even if we have learned to deny or hide those reasons, sometimes even from ourselves.
  5. The best way for me to serve fellow workers is to help them uncover and focus on their own motivations--even if they attempt to convince me they have none.

If you agree with this logic, you can stop trying to dictate other people's motivation today. The next time you need to motivate someone, try asking, "What's in it for you to work on this project with this team?" and keep the other person in conversation until he comes up with the personal benefits that motivate him.

Isn't that simple and lovely, yet exceptional. Ask the other person for their motivations. How well that ties into the concepts of teamwork.

Posted: Monday, February 04, 2008 3:01 PM by slist

Comments

Ken Judy said:

There's a book called "Leadership and Self Deception" that describes our tendency to infer other people's motives based on the affect their action has on us and the narrative we've created of them over time.

Ruins working relationships, careers and marriages.

# February 4, 2008 8:13 PM

slist said:

Good reminder - I read that book some years back, loaned it to someone, and never got it back!  Time to buy a new copy, I guess.  I like "Leadership and Self-Deception" because it's allegorical, like Blanchard's books.

# February 5, 2008 10:48 AM

Christopher Avery said:

Steven,

Thanks for the kind words about my work. I too enjoyed "Leadership and Self Deception" and think that the authors got relatively close to our own discovery of the Responsibility Process and the Keys to Responsibility whic, by the way, we continue to evolve well beyond the book which is now quite a few years old.

May I promote some links?

Agilists might be interested in an intensive 3-day (I know, long -- but powerful) seminar that instills the lessons of "Teamwork Is An Individual Skill":

http://www.KnowledgeTeamLeadership.com/

You can preview that intensive in a 70-minute MP3 replay of a recent preview call at http://www.MasteringPersonalAgility.com

Some folks in the agile community are suggesting I turn my attention more and more toward this notion of "Personal Agility." I'd love to know what you think. You can find some articles and posts out there about it. My blog is a good place to start.

And coaches and leaders might enjoy a weekend training   I do a few times a year: http://www.GlobalEducatorsAcademy.com/

Stay well!

Christopher

http://www.AskChristopherAvery.com/

# February 6, 2008 12:50 AM

project management coaches said:

I’ve found a nice spot to read more on project management coaching

# April 5, 2008 9:00 PM
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